You believe that you are strong and smart enough to live life on your own terms aren’t you? But not everybody is like you... so you get to choose what to do, when to do it and how to treat people. That all sounds great for you - the man in charge.
What is a standard for you may not be the same standard for others, because you are different and unique. We are all unique actually, but you feel more special, more in charge and owning the power to make choices for everyone. This situation arises from your EGO that has taken control over your life!
This super power of yours to chose for others and create the rules that you rarely follow creates the double standards. For example you cannot be cheated on by your romantic partner, but you are cheating occasionally. Of course you believe you simply need more variety and sing the same old song how much you love your partner. You hate it when people lose your money, but you keep on losing money yourself, without even paying attention to this fact.
Your EGO is keeping you isolated and feeling superior so that you cannot see how the way you treat people affects all your relationships - creating unnecessary misery for you. If you want to remain being special and unique but treat others with the same standard of RESPECT and KINDNESS that you treat yourself everything is going to change dramatically. Your relationships will flourish with high speed. And you know well enough that human resources are the best resources you can ever have to unlock any door you want.
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P.S Take care & enjoy right this moment - it is the only one we have for sure!