Do you often feel like you are not good enough? Do you compare yourself with others, pointing out your negative sides? Do you feel lack in your life and business? Do you feel fearful about the future? Do you feel angry or grateful? A lot of questions and the answers to all of them are simple. How you live - driven by your EGO or true self - is the big difference.
What’s the difference between them? A life driven by your EGO is focused on lack, comparison, fear, guilt, anger and lack of gratitude. On the other hand a life driven by your TRUE SELF is focused on inner strength, self- compassion, and self- love, kindness towards others and inner peace. Most of the people today live from their EGO. The world we live in cherishes money and material accomplishments.
There is nothing bad or problematic if you like or work for material things. But when you stop enjoying life, feeling joyful and free, you give up to your EGO. You feel like what you have is never enough and the never ending comparison starts. Your confidence is shaking and feeling grounded becomes a myth. This is just a normal experience that many people face in different stages of life.
Yes, life is stressful and there is a lot on your plate. But let’s face it; you have a choice every single moment. To focus on what you have, what makes you tick happily, what will make a difference, to work in harmony with others, to be a gentle, kind and respectful communicator or not. These are all choices in your hands and you have the power to awake the giant within you or live in darkness, comparison, fear and anger.
The moment you stop judging and comparing, you become free. You become resourceful, creative; life is finally fun and easier going. The self attitude towards yourself changes too. By being grateful for what you are, have and enjoy, you can work for more with patience. This is the only key to long term success. Wanting more is great thing, but paying the price of misery for your quest for growth, is a wrong destination to head to. Put your bravest smile, best outfit, sense of humor, confidence and embrace the moment, unpredictability and the opportunities ahead of you. Let go of the EGO. It does not serve you any good in any second.