The stories we live by!

Every person, no matter how smart, capable, skillful or successful, lives by the stories he cherishes on. You feel the stories so natural, so easy to perceive that they find the place in our sub consciousness quietly. Most of the people rarely even know that exactly those stories are defining them, their goals and ideas of what is even possible. People live on autopilot and that is why change seems so impossible to most.

The great and surprising news is that your brain is so powerful and can read, hear and reprogram itself with new stories. Yes, this ultimately means new you, new views on important things and more freedom, more success, more opportunities. You are maybe asking yourself now why this is not happening to me? Cuz it takes one step further than awareness, it takes MASSIVE, DEDICATED ACTION!

Even an inspiring, powerful, true and captivating story can be forgotten quite quickly when living on autopilot is a habit well trained for a person. So what is the point in putting the effort to reprogram your life? Is it worth? Is it easy?

The reality is that it is harder than you realize now. But if you don’t do it and find the courage to keep going when you think you are failing, you will end up broken. Being financially broken is the least type of loss I mean. Losing the ability to feel freedom, opportunities and to succeed are the first red signs. They scream, turn around, make a move and change the direction. Change is hard only if you keep telling yourself how challenging it will be or how many times you have already failed.

The heroes of our society are the ones who keep living by their own inspiring, giving, growing and loving stories. Be kind to yourself, learn to honor yourself, be a gift to everyone who has the chance to meet you and never stop growing. Growth is the key towards quality life, the rest just exists.

You make the choice what you deserve or you don’t deserve!

 

LABELS that define who we are and how we LIVE

  Excitement vs. Comfort

Do you actually know who you are? Mother, father, brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, surfer, day dreamer or chef…Actually there are much more labels that define us as people. But this is not who you are or what your character is like. These are social roles that you perform, this is not you. Moreover, these social roles have nothing to do with your own inner strength, personality and wisdom.

If you are proud by having any of those labels - great. They are not bad or insufficient; they are just the first layer that covers your personality. You are who you are, because of your character. Are you a player in life that always wants to win? Are you kind, social, sweet person who cares about people and likes to create bonds with them? Are you individualist protecting own personal identity more than anything? Are you an idealist ready to even die for his dream? Are you a person who always chooses the easy path? These are just some of your identity qualities; mixture of those is who you actually are.

Who are you matters, because exactly this part of you makes the life choices, changes and key decisions. The changes, the key decisions - all of these are made in this part of you – the REAL you. Knowing more about yourself allows you to make wiser, better choices for you. The simplest and most accurate way to get to know yourself is by doing something new and observing the skills you use. Most often these are your strongest skills and competitive advantages. Sometimes these are so easy for you that you forget you own those skills and you do certain things better than others.

Reminding yourself how great, extraordinary and different you are is great motivator to use. You do not have to have 100 role models or leaders to follow. You can make your future self your ROLE model. This way you won’t get discouraged every time when things do not go as planned and you will stop blaming yourself. These two things make you a winner from day ONE.

Being kind and loving to yourself matter more than anything in life. Of course you want more, of course you expect changes, and of course you have dreams and goals. This is great, but do not stop supporting and caring for yourself through the journey. Success lies in finding yourself, accepting yourself, using your strengths in every possibility and coping with your weaknesses. Nobody is perfect, but everybody has the chance to be great and extraordinary. It all lies down in your hands and choices.

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