Do you remember the last time when somebody pissed you off by being rude, unable to perform their job right or just by asking questions that have nothing to do with the conversation? We are all so alike and different from each other. Some people are just harder to deal with, they seem to understand less, talk too much or just try to spoil the fun and good parts of your days. If this sounds familiar to you, I have a plan how to handle these situations better without missing all the great vibes of the moment. Amazing, right?
There are people who are just not your type of people; they seem negative, complaining, victimized, helpless and needy. I know you don’t like them and I understand why. But sometimes you meet those folks in life or work and you have to learn how to deal with them. It is a not a pleasant or easy job, but it has to be done.
A simple, but incredibly powerful and useful strategy how to deal with the people who piss you off is listed especially for you below. First accept the people whom you can’t stand the way they are right now. They are not going to change or at least not going to change to a significant degree. Second of all set some clear and real boundaries. State what you are going to accept or not in terms of communication style, actions or lack of any actions.
When you state in a clear and determined way that you accept who they are, but you have your own code of conduct in life and business, too things become easier to handle. You are no longer against those folks. This definitely does not mean that you like or tolerate the way they act or think, you simply accept them. In the same time you do not get pissed off anymore, you do not yell and you do not worry about their inability to do things right.
You simply set yourself free and living the life you want to live without unnecessary misery or anger!
P.sIf you are ready to enhance your game and level up, just sign up for discovery session 45 minutes free of charge, to tell me more about yourself and what bothers your peace and happiness! I will understand more about you and where you are exactly right now. Then if you decide we team up in a coaching team to create unique strategy tailored for your life or business to handle those folks better and remain calm reaching your targets and succeeding even further along the way!
Take care & own right this moment!