Fear is a word that makes you either shake or laugh out loud. The way you treat fear is the way you live your life. Either you don’t care about all the mental madness going in your head, the inner voice yelling in your mind or what people think of you and as a result you do what you believe is right. Or you try to please everybody including your own inner voice that screams you cannot, you are not good enough! Who are you to think you are extraordinary? Not to forget all the lovely folks who are always ready to remind you of the worst, scariest and impossible things in our world! What an inspiration, right? But everything is impossible until somebody makes it possible by creating it and accomplishing more than the rest.
My goal is to talk about the people who are the role models of our society, the ones who own the magic of authentic living in unapologetic manner. That is why a few truths about life have to be said right now, starting the real talk about hustle, what’s possible and your own, powerful choices.
#1 What people think, say or do towards you is none of your business. Let them be who they are good, bad, supportive or not. There is a great group of cheerleaders that will always comment others, be jealous of the successful ones and wish to see them fail. So what? Succeeding against the odds is even sweeter reward to gain. So once and for all decide to stop caring about what other people think of you, say about you or how they see you. Learn to decide that the only person you need to achieve more than is yourself and what you did yesterday.
IF you already don’t care what others think of you I am super proud and happy to hear it, you are already on your road to authentic living and greatness. You taste the freedom of being who you are and bench marking only against yourself.
#2 The annoying, crazy and never stopping inner voice that tells you what you cannot do, how you are not confident enough, smart enough, rich enough or charismatic enough. You need to learn how to live in peace and acceptance with this crazy and aggressive player in your own mind. If you win the mind game, you have won it all. There are many ways to accomplish it and what will be most useful and practical depends on your character and unique inner dialog.
If you have finally understood and embraced the idea that we are not going to live forever and want to create real changes today, not tomorrow or on Monday, let’s connect. I can offer you support, empowerment and uniquely tailored strategies for your own success.