Battling…with whom exactly? Rivals, competitors and people who try to ruin your success? Battling with the negativity, with the people who don’t treat you right or with bureaucracy? Fighting against the status quo or the problems that actually matter? We are all in fight or flight mode all the time. The choice is to start a new battle or just rise above the situation and even accept the absurdity of the moment.
Take a look at the mirror - the only lifelong fight is the battle against the person we see in the mirror. When I heard this, in the movie about the boxing legend Rocky – ‘’Creed’’, I just remained silent. It was so true and so simple to realize it, feel it and experience it. The difference between our own victory and failure depends on the relationship we have with the person we see in the mirror. We are ourselves biggest warrior or problem. The way you treat, love or don’t, the person you see in the mirror, is the quality of the life you chose to live. Neither your rivals, competitors nor the people who don’t treat you right, BUT you - yourself.
Even on the incredibly harsh boxing arena if you win the battle with the person you see in the mirror, you have won your life battle and your boxing match. How do you treat the person in front of the mirror? With kindness, respect, in a gentle and loving manner or in a harsh manner with never ending expectations and should’s mixed with could’s. The way you support or destruct the person in front of the mirror is the fate you create for yourself. The gratitude for being or the anger towards the person you see in the mirror is the vibe you create moment after moment.
Then these moments create your life story - the story you write. By not realizing how devastating, negative and fearful the one you see in the mirror is, you start living in a prison. Lately I have figured out something tremendous. Everybody who is successful, happy, healthy and feels good has won the battle with the person in the mirror. Owning yourself is the hardest and most rewarding thing you can do for yourself. Feeling at ease with yourself and treating yourself like your best friend.
As it sounds so easy to understand and believe, it is way harder to actually MAKE IT HAPPEN for yourself. Being a person who has the same everyday challenge with the one in the mirror I know that it is way harder to achieve this for yourself. What’s my offer on the table?
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